The ordinary evening before everything changes
Door 4 is the part of the story that should have remained ordinary. An evening out, a series of everyday choices, and a life being lived — until, later, those same moments are gathered up and turned into reasons.
This page asks you to notice how quickly ordinary details can be gathered up later and turned into judgement. What was simply living, socialising, dressing, drinking, walking, trusting, or being out can suddenly be rewritten as explanation.
Door 4 – Just a Night Out
Door 4 – Just a Night Out
Which of Eve’s ordinary choices tonight do you think might later be used against her?
What choices made by other people are invisible so far?
Support information and links
Support information and links connected to domestic abuse awareness and survivor support.
Bedfordshire based services
Butterflies in Shades of Grey
The Butterflies in Shades of Grey programme is a comprehensive support initiative designed to assist both direct and indirect victims of domestic and sexual violence. This programme acknowledges the complex nature of trauma and offers a multi-faceted approach to healing and empowerment.
Bedfordshire Police
Information and campaign support around violence and abuse against women and girls, including domestic abuse, stalking and sexual offences.
BDAP
Bedfordshire Domestic Abuse Partnership offers information, support pathways and local connections for people affected by domestic abuse across Bedfordshire.
National services
24 Hour National Domestic Abuse Helpline for Women
Helping women escape domestic abuse.
ManKind Initiative
Helping men escape domestic abuse.
Galop
Support for LGBT+ people who have experienced abuse and violence.
16 Days of Action 2025
This year’s 16 Days of Action Our House tour and workshops is proud to be funded by the Office of the Police and Crime Commissioner’s Grassroots Innovation Fund.